Oh please understand, I am not striking out in anger, or in vengance – I just needed to know if I had to do anything “official” about this. I think I put in my original post I know that certificate won’t be changed, and that’s ok, I just wondered if there was more I had to do in regards to an honory spiritual advisor. I have absolutely NO experience with this situation, and don’t know anyone that has. I am just asking, that’s all.
If my original post sounded dramatic, again, I am a bit hurt, but beyond that, I have my own guilt in this situation. I’ll deal with that in reconciliation. This has been a very difficult journey for everyone involved, and yes, ties MOST DIFINITELY had to be cut - for now. I think she may need me soon and with God’s help I’ll decide my bestt course of action.
I guess maybe anyone who reads this post can say prayer for my children’s Godmother. In this I have learned a whole lot about abortion, like it doesn’t just kill an innocent child, but kills the innocence of the mother too. My friend went from being a sweet, giving, honest, and wonderful practicing Catholic who’s faith I admired…to a compulsive lying, cheating, adulterating, manipulative woman on the verge of a nervous breakdown. You can literally see it in her face, she looks haggard. I am so terribly sad about this. I have tried to council with her, I have tried to talk with her, but it’s just lie on top of lie on top of lie. She has alienated MOST of her friendships. All of us are worried about her. But she’s an adult and there is just nothing we can do. I do pray for her daily. I do want to be there for her if it does come down to her having to be hospitilized. This is just very sad, and for now, it’s actually dangerous to be around her. She throws tantrums, literally throwing items at people. She’s jumped out of a moving car. I can’t have this kind of nonsense around my children or my husband. Who by the way, being a recipient of one of her tantrum’s has practically forbidden me to see her or expose myself to any of it.
Yes please say a prayer for her, and thank you for allowing me to vent that, or reading it if you come across it. I haven’t really spoken much about this to anyone, except another friend of hers who had to have the police called because it was so insane.
Bless her heart, I hope she get’s help.
And thank you, all of you for answering my questions regarding this situation.