[quote="lovedbyHim, post:10, topic:220494"]
Wow, a lot of assumptions means I must type more parameters next time!
NO IT IS NOT MY HUSBAND! It is a girl DS calls by name and texts and skypes and Facebooks and phones.
Yes, their comments were of a graphic impure nature. He is LYING to us about where he wants to go (WITH OUR CAR), which would be out of state.
You say I am invading his privacy? Baloney. He lives in MY HOUSE, I am paying HIS TUITION, he is eating MY FOOD, using MY UTILITIES. If he wants to lie and be immoral and possibly get the STD or impregnate someone as someone implied my husband would, don't I have the right to say, HEY YOU'RE LYING and tell him the dangers of meeting someone he knows only from online? Besides, SHE IS A MINOR!!!!!!!!!
Now, can someone help me or not?
I recommend sitting down with him and CALMLY TALKING. COMMUNICATION is the key, not sneaking around behind his back. Show him you are concerned and explain why you area concerned. Perhaps he has not thought out the situation. Gently explain it - NO YELLING! Calmly and quietly and respectfully DISCUSS the pros and cons. As soon as you start yelling, the hearing from his end ceases, and I guarantee all he will hear is "blah, blah, blah". So do NOT yell.