A few months back my brother asked me to be in his wedding as a groomsman. I agreed, saying “I think I can do that.”
Both he and the bride-to-be confirmed Catholics. They plan to marry in September. She sold her house, and I just found yesterday that the new owners will take posession on Friday. All evidence says that she will move in with him this weekend. If this is the case, I don’t feel it’s right to be in the wedding.
So, my questions are: Am I making a mountain out of a molehill? If it indeed is problematic (which I think it is) I don’t know how to articulate it gently and firmly without having it seem that I am “just being difficult.” Could you help me articulate this in a charitable and detached manner?