Hello thanks for looking at this,
5 Years ago I made a private vow to God that if he gave me success in a relationship with my (now) wife that I would give up coffee for life as a sacrifice of thanks. I know it sounds silly… but coffee was (is) a very great material comfort to me and it seemed significant to go without it.
So God held up his end of things. Now I would like to commute this vow into something of equal or better value, since this particular sacrifice is a bit heavy and is beginning to stray into an occasion for sin… since I can get bitter or become tempted to lapse.
So my question is two part: 1) Am I reading correctly that I have the power to commute this vow into something of better good. 2) What recommendations do you have for the better good?