Can I go to a Jewish wedding?

My cousin, who does not actively practice her Jewish faith, is having a Jewish wedding in a few weeks. As a Catholic, should I be attending this wedding? I know that my uncle would be hurt if I did not attend, but I am more concerned about hurting Jesus.

Why would you think it would “hurt Jesus” if you attended a Jewish wedding? Scripture itself indicates that he did so himself at least twice: once, at the wedding of Cana; prior to that, his own parents’ wedding, when his Mother, the Blessed Virgin, married his legal father, St. Joseph.

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