Im from malaysia and im fall in love with my first cousin (my mother’s brother son). Is it possible for me to marry in church? we were in love for 8 years and still waiting for the approval from church. father, can i marry him in church?? or what else i should do to marry with him? i dont want to go against to the church rule but in same time i dont want to lose him. can you explain father? is it a sin??