Can my boyfriend be my sponsor?

at my first rite last week i was told that my boyfriend cannot be my sponser anymore. why was i not imformed earlier. i was wanting to know is it just father making that decision or is it true he cannot sponser me??:shrug:

The following link should help you better understand why the Church discourages you from having your boyfriend as your sponsor. If you have any further questions, please contact Catholic Answers directly.

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