Can my gay kids be saved?

two of my four kids are in same sex relationships. Of course I fear for their souls and I pray that they will convert both in their lack of faith and their sexuality. But I cant see it happening. I have grown fond of my kids partners and have become accepting of the situation but cannot forget that it is unnatural and not at all what God intended.
Apart from deathbed conversions and confessions by both of them, two miracles I will pray for, do you see any other way God will forgive them?
I blame myself partly, for not bringing them up as practicing catholics but whats done is done I suppose.

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