I once read in Dear Abbie a letter from a mother wondering if she should “make” her 12-year-old daughter get an abortion. DA’s answer was something like “You may want to discuss the risks of pregnancy at such a young age with the doctor.” The question of whether or not you can even force a minor to get an abortion never even came up.
I would have assumed that you cannot do this, but several people I know say that, yes, of course you can. “After all, it’s her parents who will have to raise the baby, so they get to have the choice.”
I do know that it’s not unusual for parents to rufuse to let their daughters have any pain medication during labor, and that’s allowed. But, that’s different than forcing her to get a procedure, isn’t it?