I have a hard time understanding the concept of why anyone, but those called to marriage should have sexual hormonal feelings and how they could possibly be used for anything (properly) outside of marriage. From what I understand (i.e. from what I learned from Theology of the Body), the sexual feelings are for an unmarried person, ideally, to somehow convert sexual energy into another kind of energy and use it for creativity or something? No one explains how to go about it that I am aware of and I don’t get it. Does anyone else really get it and can it possibly be explained so that other people like me, who really don’t get it? I thought before, it could be used in prayer (without having to be converted into something else), but I was unsure about it, asked a priest and he told me while it isn’t a sin, it also isn’t proper.
I’d rather never have such feelings in the first place, or take something to make them go away. To me, they do nothing but tempt and distract when they come and usually I do what I can to make them fade away if I am at all able. Mine come and go at random mostly so its mainly from within that my problem comes.