Well this is the way I feel about the catechism. Say use this for an example. The catechism says that masterbation is a grave matter and meets all the requirements of mortal sin. I’m not arguing with that. But here’s the thing. Someone is having problems somewhere and we aren’t perfect like god. This is more complicated a situation then the catechism is leding us to believe. I really do think that needs a priest’s touch. There are a lot of things that god views that we don’t culpability for one thing and just to say this is wrong and that is wrong and so on without saying the “whys and wheres” just isn’t right. I really think a priest should be involved. And definately some reconciliation.