I would like to seek advice in regard to dating and catholic courtship. I am 25 years old, turning 26... a devout catholic (or at least i try my best) and attend church often..
i recently graduated college and dont have a career yet ( although looking)..
i know the point of dating is to find someone for marriage (life long commitment).. i have dated "just to date" in the past and knew it would never work out.. although i am very picky and probably more so than now..
i would like to think i have my lust under control, and i do want purity and chastity more than anything, i am not perfect in that respect but i am on a journey to be so.. most days .. i am living out my obedience to god as his servant..
anyways.. teh question..
do you recommend I date women ( there is one girl who i met at a club who is interested in going for coffee).. does it make sense to date her if i dont have a job yet? should i wait until i am more chaste ..
on the one hand, i feel that i met this girl to date her and see what can happen.. and that i would be just throwing away an opportunity, on the other hand im not sure?