I just noticed that you are the same person who started another thread where you talk about being porn-free for six months, but that you have watched incest and child porn in the past. This changes the entire complexion of your issue with your father.
Does he know of your past issues with porn? Is this leading you deeper into temptation? I’m sure it’s a major threat to you. How threatened are you by this? Does your mom know of your past issues with porn? Has there been sex abuse in your family?
Treat these as rhetorical questions. I think what you really need is to get the name of a good clinical psychologist from your priest and talk with that person about the whole thing. Disregard my suggestion for writing a letter. There is WAY more here than a simple matter, and THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO BE DEALING WITH THESE SPECIFIC ISSUES IN YOUR LIFE!!!**
**My prayers are with you on this, but there are a host of other issues in your home fueling your porn addiction and your dad’s. A really good psychologist can help you get to the bottom of it all. He/she can communicate with your priest, with your permission, to best help you. Do it! There are no short-cuts in life. The sooner you do it, the better for all involved. **
**Make a copy of all the questions you asked here, the threads you started. There seems to be an issue of scrupulosity, which points to some deeper hurt or wound. In good counseling, that can be healed, and you can enjoy a degree of liberation that your soul will rejoice in. Click on your name and scroll to the “Find All Posts By ShaunH” link. It’s all there. Show it all to your confessor and get going on the help. It’s very doable, and your activity here at the forums demonstrates your capacity to do it well. Not many people have the gift of honesty that you have about yourself. That should speed you along to healing and wholeness in no time at all. Use that gift Shaun. It’s the Holy Spirit alive and active in you.
God Bless You. You seem like a great guy. Your parents are lucky to have you. :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown2::bowdown2: :highprayer::highprayer: