I have a question I have not seen placed before regarding sacramentally valid marriages. I am catholic, happily married for 14 years in the church, and intending to stay so. However, thinking back to my catholic wedding I realize how naive I was and even though I went to pre-cana and all, it seems I didn't understand all that I should have about what a true sacramental marriage is all about. My worry is this: is it possible my marriage isn't sacramentally valid and all this time I have only had a naturally valid marriage without the sacramental grace? I know the church presumes validity, but what if the presumption is wrong? Maybe I am just being scrupulous and have no reason for concern, but what about folks who are happily married but were really too naive to have given proper consent?