My friend is in a dilemma and I want to give the best advice possible. I have found it to be quite a conundrum and would like to hear other opinions on this.
She is planning to get married soon (this year), but is going to have to move far away (out of state). She is particularly close to her grandmother, who does not have many friends and whose health is slowly declining. Her grandmother looks to her for companionship, which my friend does not mind at all.
Because she is moving, she has invited her grandmother to come move with her, but the grandmother will not do this at all. My friend has to move to be with her husband. What should be more of a priority for her-- supporting her husband or taking care of a widow, both of which are very biblical characteristics we are called to?
How can she resolve both without feeling like she has to give up one for the other, or that she is letting one feel more important than the other?