A close relative of ours has taken up pole dancing and is quite good at it. She is also a practicing Christian (Protestant) and doesn’t seem to think that her faith and her hobbies conflict- “it’s just a sport”.
I don’t know how she doesn’t see that from the attire, to the moves, to the pole dancing culture everything about pole dancing is counter to a chaste lifestyle. She even does pole dancing shows for the family, where people go with their children. How can I explain to her why I don’t think that it’s appropriate to bring my children in the first place, but even for her to be investing her life in this (it’s really more than just a hobby).
We have a very good and open relationship otherwise, I don’t doubt that she can handle my honesty, I just want to make sure that it actually helps her see the problem with it.