No not you. I’ve had to deal with irrational people, so I am not blaming this on his wife’s hormones. I’ve known people who make everyone miserable with their desire for the perfect Christmas. If the OP is married to such a person, then he has loads of my sympathy. This isn’t a male/female thing though. I think that the OP might mistakenly have thought that this was normal female behavior. It isn’t.
The op is a guy, so I meant that we were sympathetic toward his plight in dealing with his wife. There was one female poster who politely suggested that the poster should simply do more for his wife. I was referring to her. I didn’t think that my reference toward her was negative though.