Lately my fiance and I have been having communication issues. Our wedding is coming up pretty soon, so a lot of our time, energy, attention and communication has been about wedding related things. Although these wedding tasks do need to be taken care of, I feel like communication about more important things has broken down. This has also contributed to us arguing a lot, sometimes saying hurtful things, and holding resentment against each other because we never communicated, or didn’t communicate clearly to the other person.
I keep wanting us to start fresh, but it’s hard. I think both me and my fiance are still hurt over some of the mean things we’ve said and done to each other and the lack of communication has just increased the distance between us. My fiance used to tell me that our talks were the best part of the day. Now it’s often not even part of the day. I don’t know where to begin to even fix things. Please help. Thank you and God bless you all.