Hello, this is Prcath, first time post!
-Well basically this is how it is, my girlfriend resides in a Opus Dei dorm whilst she studies in a University here in Puerto Rico. But ever since the beginning they have been pressuring her to join Opus Dei and to go to all the retreats (retreats which have the ultimate goal of turning ppl into numeraries). Which I understand, until she told them that that was not her way of worshipping her and she had other plans for her life. But now they have began to acuse her of putting god aside (he who is without sin shall cast the first stone?) and worrying about earthly things and telling her that she should leave me (thats a whole nother conversation, but ignore this point for now :P) and basically I as a Catholic, find that quite uncatholic. They make her prepare the mass everyday which is a job for the numeraries in training and basically they dont let her live in peace and study, which is the reason she chose that dorm, it was safe, and gave her extra time to study so she thought. Both her and I are practicing catholics and we know whats said about steady dating but we only see each other about 30 mins to one hour a day and are quite controlled :D but basically our wonder is if all Opus Dei are like this since everything I have read has told me no and that its not correct.
P.D.: Ty for your time, and sorry for the bad english :P
PPD: Oh and she is going to confront them this weekend, any advice?