Hello I need some advice my wife and I will be married 6 years November 29th We have 3 beautiful children 5, 3, and almost 2 :). Problem is she has left and is contemplating whether she wants to stay married or not. I believe she has already made her decision which is to divorce Well as you can tell that is one issue in its self. Where I stand, I absolutely do not want a divorce. She is unwilling to speak to our Priest or a therapist. This hurts very much that she is not willing to do anything to try and work out the marriage. We had a good marriage compared to a lot of other marriages. There was/is another guy involved supposedly she hasn’t been unfaithful physically I will take her word for it . She told me that she needed time to herself to figure things out. She told me she told him the same thing which upsets me because she shouldn’t have had to tell him any thing to begin with BTW it is her boss . Her company has policy of supervisors not being romantically involved with their subordinates. I have thought very seriously to report this to their HR department, then I think it would be petty even though she is my wife. If she chooses to love another, although wrong I can’t stop her. That is my first question should I report it or not?
More importantly, I am concerned about my children. She has been to Mass once in four months which means she is not fulfilling her obligation as a Catholic. After that Mass is when she told me she wanted to separate. She isn’t going to Mass, she doesn’t seem to have any regard at all for the Trinity, she doesn’t have a Bible or even a Crucifix in her home. I don’t want me children raised this way! I want them to have the truth I have but it seems they will be torn how I feel about faith and her lack of faith. I know when they are at the age of reason it will be their choice on what they believe. For now though I want the foundation built so when they do reach that age of reason they will believe in the truth. What am I supposed to do?
I don’t mind carrying this Cross but I have no idea where God is going with this one. I do believe though where ever he is taking me it will be for the best
Gratefully Yours in the Trinity,