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unhappy.. i don't think so.. although we do lack some communication ability.
honestly.the night this hit me was after a few weeks i had been upset because my husband and i don't talk about nfp together very often.. and i am always the one worryin about it..
i also feel a little better already from just typing this down.
i feel like if he were to hear that this is what i was feeling...i'm scared of what he'd think.
i do have a very guilty feeling tho lately of when i'm doing things that aren't religious..
i'm beatin myself up.. and just wanting a clear answer like NO or YES... but i know this will come if i continue to pray.
thank you so much.. prayers are very much welcomed!
And one thing I have learned about my husband: he does not want to talk abou or hear about anything regarding female inner workings. Totally not his cup of tea. He is a man and men just don't "do" that. But he was with me for all our babies, which was much more important.
It may be that you will need to initiate certain necessary conversations, and keep them concise and not too detailed.
Don't worry about not doing religious things, and in fact, you should probably talk this over with your priest or a priest who is knowledgeable about the spiritual life. He will be able to help you sort some of these things out. It is OK to do the things that are part of your state of life, it is OK to enjoy yourself as long as you don't neglect your state of life. Share them with God by thanking Him :)