Okay, so lets say a person would be sucessful whether they chose to be married, single, or to religious life. If this was the case, could they chose their vocation. I know most people would disagree, but i have a hard time with the idea that a person could chose a vocation.
I'm Sure, there are people who aren't right for a certain vocation, but what about people who feel they are called to each of the vocations, but don't know which is better. Or what if somebody has never found out their vocation and made a choice to be married or join the priesthood.
This has been bugging me lately because I have a hard time knowing what my vocation is. I feel called to marriage, but it seems impossible to be able to achieve that for me (i'll spare my whole list of issues). Also, sometimes I still feel attracted to single life or the priesthood. Unfortunately, I haven't recieved an answer. Sometimes I wish God would just tell me. You know, give me the most obvious sign, like a message in a dream or spell it out in the sky. Anything. I just wish I knew.