10-4 on that advice. Practice though deeds will win through. Jesus took a lot for us and showed us how to take it on the chin!
Turning the other cheek with good deeds and love. Nothing can resist that Unconditional Love radiating from him, and from you.
Thanks to all who have made loving responses here. I am much encouraged in my situation which is quite similar. I will try, with God's help to outlove, outserve and outshine. Can't do it on my own.