I realize that it is hard to fully explain any situation online but I will try.
I am a senior in high school and have a girlfriend; we have been going out for a year and a half. We will be attending different colleges.
She is Catholic and is one of the nicest people I know. Her faith is growing, and I am proud that the now goes to church every weekend. She cares about me deeply and we work well together in doing things such as carpooling our younger siblings around. She is so mother-like that one of her nicknames is "Mama." She generally stays clear of drama and gossip which I heavily dislike. She is a hard worker and is a modest individual.
However, I have some reservations about her.
I don't like how she treats her family much of the time. She oftentimes puts her sisters or close friends down or makes them out to be "stupid." When I questioned her on this, she said that they have a special relationship, and she was not being mean. I find her only moderately attractive and am not very excited to see her in the morning at school as someone who is "in love" would be. I find her to be boring sometimes as she is an introvert and I am mildly an introvert so half the time we don't talk as we walk to a class. I am concerned that if I am questioning our relationship now, it will be especially difficult when we are in a long distance relationship.
I suppose if this were boiled down, it could read as "How much does personality, feelings, and beauty affect a relationship in which both people have good morals?"
Thank you for your replies.