I just have to post this because I need support to stick to my decision.
As I posted previously, I had a profile on a Catholic dating site. And to be honest, all I could see was my behaviour became very unhealthy (for lack of a better word).
I would spend hours sifting through profiles to see if any good looking men were on-line. Judging eveyone by appearance (because after all it is the first thing you have to go on) and leaving my computer on and coming in to check it every 20 minutes hoping someone contact me to chat.
And then, when this one guy did contact me..... well...... I just though he came across as a goof ball and just felt frustrated. Then when another guy contact me..... I felt he was kind of argumentative and had a hard time not taking the bait. What a silly thing to do ie get into an argument with a stranger over the internet
So in a nut shell, I think this whole thing was just becoming way to obsessive. Maybe others see it as a great way to meet people, I just see it as a headache. I guess in a way it is a bit like alcohol. Some people can have a beer others can't
So, in a nutshell, I hope people can help me remain strong and not go back to the site. It will be a hard habit to break, but I am sure it will be worth it.