My step daughter dad is a medicated psychopath and we have recently had to get restraining orders for me and my mom. My wife has never been good at standing up to him but has tried as of late and went through with appearing in court and testifying against him.
He had been calling and cussing me and her out. He was supposed to split fathers day with us and we were going to drop her off (shes 6) at his house hafter we went to the movies. In the morning he agreed to it. When we left the theatre there were nasty messages on my wifes phone and when we told him we were not going to bring her over he went nuts and came over our house and stood outside. We all left and called police and he proceeded to go to my moms house, whom he does not even know, and htreatened to punch her in the face. We both obtained peace orders against him.
My wife told him to go away until he got himself straight. He supposedly went out of state to his grandmas and came back a few weeks later.
Here is my ?. He has not paid child support in 8 months and has lost his lisence and now his job because of it. I dont think he should ever see her until he apologizes and starts acting mature and decent to all involved.
However my wife has agreed to let her go to his house as long as his sister agrees to be there with her. I dont trust any of them They all enable his crazy behavior which includes high speed police chases, arrests, fights, drugs, getting kicked out of the pool for splashing the guards and not stopping after being asked to repeatedly( hes 27)…etc…
She went today and came home with his IPOd shuffle, an expensive music player. I dont think he should be giving any gifts until he pays up his support. I dont like him getting credit for being a great dad until he is one. I dont want her to have a twisted view of him.
Am I wrong?