My friend, G, and I went through a point in time where we were sexually interested in one another. He was engaged to another women, but would show me physical affection, and offered to have sex with me on multiple occasions.
He and I still talk, and he likes to engage in sexual discussions, especially involving his desire to experience homosexual sex again (he is bisexual).
I met him via the campus pagan group, but he was our “resident Christian” and was president of Campus Crusade.
Since I have returned to the Church, I try to steer our convos to other things, but he comes back to sex, how much he misses me, how much he misses homosexual “lovins”, complaining that his wife will not take care of the desires he wants (lets just say that it involves sex toys), wanting to know about my married sex life, etc…
We have not talked in several weeks (almost 3 months) and he randomly im-ed me. Engaging in the same topics as before.
Other than telling him to shove off, what can I do? I reminded him that his bisexuality is his cross and that he should offer up his suffering for others. He said I sounded like " a regular preacher" and went right back to asking me about DH and I’s sex life. I am about ready to cut him off as a friend.
Pray for him, his wife (I doubt she knows about any of this), and for me.