I may stir up some stuff when I say this, but this is for the single ladies. Has anyone else here decided to just live a single, chaste life and not even try to date?
I was married for 10 years, and have been divorced for 4, (annulment in process.) When I started dating again, I was literally in shock about the way things are now. People don’t seem to “date” any more. It’s more like a man will say, “Hey, why don’t you come over to my house?” There’s none of the getting-to-know-each other type dating I was used to. (Last time I dated was in the 90’s). Back then, you would meet a guy, go out on a few dates, and then if you liked each other, a relationship would ensue. Now it’s all about the so-called “Hook up” culture.
So, in response to this, I have decided to not date at all, and live chastely. Yes, it would be great to find someone one day, but I’m not counting on it. I’m in my thirties, and not thin and beautiful. I am curious as to whether any other ladies felt this way. :shrug: