So we’ve all been there right? Tall, dark, handsome and holy man walks in and turns out to be Catholic, kind, smart, strong, happy and all those things that make any Catholic girl kindof get butterflies inside.
Or for the men, a pretty woman walks in who is Catholic, smart, kind, happy and all that jazz.
Furthermore the more you get to know them, the more and more of these positive traits are revealed to you.
Inevitably you develop a crush on that person. My question is once it’s there, as a responsible Catholic adult, what do you do with it?
How moral is facebook stalking? How about wishing that person would ask you out? If it’s not likely to go anywhere. What’s something good you can do with your feelings and desires toward that person? How do you make sure your feelings affect your discernment appropriately?
I mean this in general and want to start an adult conversation on the matter.
I’m having my second big Catholic crush. It was really hard getting over the first one, but I learned and grew up a lot because of it. I’m not going to let this one go that far, I really don’t think it’s going to go anywhere. I have the desires and I’m trying to fuel them into something bigger and better.
Any suggestions or empathy or similar problems or funny stories or even romantic stories (to give us some hope) are more than welcome. Have at it!