So here is my situation:
I am discerning my vocation at the moment, and I feel a tugging from both the married life and the religious life! I know its good for any Catholic woman to consider both vocations, and that its normal to be attracted to both because both vocations are so beautiful. I don't really feel like either calling is stronger than the other, but there is a constant tug of war between the two.
I am however, dealing with attractions to guys, which is normal I know, but I feel like it may be clouding my discernment process. It seems like I am attracted to every young Catholic guy I meet, and as I spend time around a certain guy, I end up not being able to stop thinking about him for a while and thinking about if he might be my future spouse and almost daydreaming about what it would be like if we were married....but then just as quick ill meet or spend time around another guy and the same thing will happen! And this happens with a lot of guys I meet, and half of them I don't even know very well. I would never act on any of these attractions unless I was absolutely sure the guy could be a potential husband and unless we had a strong friendship first, but I just find them very distracting!
Any advice or experiences that might help?
Thanks and God bless!