I was engaged and planning on spending the rest of my life with my ex-fiance but things fell apart right before my eyes. I never expected it but one argument snowballed and it led to the end.
Through that, I began thinking about marriage and I looked around at people I knew. The majority of the people I know are divorced. The few couples that I do know who have been married for a while are not happy. It just seems like people can't stay together forever. One person changes or grows and if the other person doesn't, how can you make it work? Or what if you find something about your spouse that you didn't know before and with each day the frustration grows and you can't take it anymore?
I know marriage is supposed to be forever but it seems like people either stay together forever and are unhappy or people decide they want to be happy but split. I guess I just can't understand how people can make it last forever and still be happy and in love. :shrug: