My wife and I have started to have some issue's, and most of it come down to her being controlling and insulting to me.
We do not have any children and have been married for three years.
I am not going to get into any all the details(I will hope to give to much of a sad story as it is). I have started to talk to a catholic counselor and I have been happy to with them so far in our few sessions. They have given me some great suggestions but I have emailed them before my session next week letting them I can not handle all these issues on my own, and we are going to find a way to get my wife more involved after my next session.
Although hesitate the counselor at my last session let me know there are some personalty disorder triats in my wife, without even talking with my wife because there is now way I could be making my stories up.
Some of the issue's that have are family issues...
I picked up a piece of paper tonight by mistake she is not home, and found this crazy letter she is writing to my mother. There are horrible, insulting, rambling comments in this letter about every member of my family(especially my mom). I just happend accross this letter when I was looking for something else. (My wife also has a broken relationship with her own parents and brother). We only see our parents maybe 6-10 times a year, and they live less than a hour away. I try to talk to my parents 2-3 times month, but have to do so in hiding because I will be told why did I have to talk them. She talks to her family even less. (My family was finaly permited to our house after 15 months of moving in this past weekend, I think this somehow prompted the letter, she invited my family)
Here is my question, I am fearful this letter will get sent before I can contact this letter before I can contact the consoler.
Do I chance her sending this letter before I meet with the consoler for assistance?
Do I confront my wife about this?
Do I tell my wife she can not a letter like this?