Over this last weekend hubby and I had a huge fight. And no, this isn’t a bad things. See, we have a saying: “Fights clear the air in the same way that farts do not.”
Yeah, we find it funny, but meaningful. Everytime we have a huge fight we are SO into each other for the weeks or months that follow because our fights are always productive. We always learn so much about each other from fights.
Anyway, I say this to state that hubby and I are in a GREAT place right now. Intimacy is high, commitment is as strong as ever, and we have figured each other out that much more. But I feel like we’ve made someone mad.
Last night my husband and I had almost the EXACT same dream about something happening that broke us up. For me, it was an utter nightmare that involved my marriage ending. For hubby, it was just something he laughed off and knew it would never happen. I am far more susceptible to my dreams than he is because I am such a vivid dreamer.
At any rate, I can’t help but wonder that now that our marriage is on such a great track and he can’t tear us apart through what caused the argument in the first place, is he attacking us in our dreams? Does it seem to you like Satan deliberately attacks marriage more than anything else?