Bella, you’ll find those kinds of folks everywhere, not just Catholic!
But anyway, no worry of murder here, as DH has azoospermia, no epididymus, and I have pcos. The bc is to regulate my cycle, the fertility meds are to make me ovulate (as I don’t on my own) and the doctor does the rest!
I know it’s not acceptable from a Catholic viewpoint, but that’s the situation. (which I said I wasn’t going into…sigh. Sorry)