Our youngest daughter was married, not in the church, 9 years ago. She was pregnant with our beautiful intelligent granddaughter at the time. Last year she seperated from her husband. At first it seemed to be a good choice for her, she seemed happier, lost a lot of weight etc. Now we are not so sure. She was going out or having get parties at her home. Then she met someone.
She has shared custody with her husband (divorce papers have not been filed yet). There have been times on her week with her daughter that she has left her with her sister so she can go out partying with her boyfriend or without saying anything taken off while my granddaughter was staying overnight for a large city 300 miles away from home.
The boyfriend does not know how to interact with a child and has said some hurtful things to my granddaughter. My daughter has not spoken to him about this or spoken up for her daughter.
A few weeks ago, we found out that the boyfriend has moved in. We were so upset we were ready to support our son-in-law if he chose to request full custody.
Today, unknown to our daughter, we found out that she had seen a doctor for a pregnancy test and then for a prenatal visit. We found this out because she is still on our son-in-law’s insurance and he got the insurance statement stating such.
I’m afraid this guy is just a user. Our daughter does have a good paying job. He is a student with a parttime job for the college.
What should we do when she tells us she is pregnant?:shrug: