I feel guilty about it sometimes, mentioning my loved ones online. It can help to have a purely observational opinion on things though.
I just keep imagining - how would that person feel to know I was discussing them online? I feel guilty about it sometimes, but then I look at other threads and think woah! Things like "I want to leave my wife..." - I think thats something that's much different to post about on rather than "considoring chastity" which I have, or "I struggle to respect my mother", purely because of the consequences of what would happen if that person did see that thread.
With my chastity threads relating to my relationship with my boyfriend for example - I feel guilty about posting them, cause its a private thing. I have discussed it with my boyfriend, he knows I have already spoken to other people about it, and he knows that I never mention his real name (I use fake abbreivations for example when referring to him on this forum) and I never use mine. He knows I have discussed it with people in Church - the lady who leads RCIA, and he's okay with that, even though I told her quite personal things about him, and she obviously knows me.
But with my mother, she doesn't know I'm posting and would probably be really offended.
So it's not so much what I'm saying because I know I'm protecting their privacy as well as mine, but the fact that I'm discussing my issues with strangers. Does this bother anyone else?