Hope raises itself to God in prayer with trust in His Mercy. False hope presume God’s Mercy.
There were two men trapped in a burning building. One man prayed to God and he was saved. The other man presumed God would save him and he was not.
Humility dose whatever God wills, including obedience to His Church. False humility dose whatever God wills, excluding obedience to His Church.
There were two mystics within the same diocese. One stopped communicating with God when her bishop forbide it even though God had told her to keep communicating. The other continued to communicate wih God in spite of the bishop’s order because God told her to keep communicating.