My husband and I have been married for quite a few years...and there is something in his family dynamic that really is concerning me. From the beginning of our relationship I noticed that his immediate family members would talk down to him, tell him that he didn't know what he was talking about, would tell him that he couldn't remember things that he remembered, or would totally dismiss his opinion as "preposterous". Because of the way this makes him feel, my husband has labeled himself as "the dumb one".
Whenever there are family events, this still takes place. I don't know how to go about expressing my concern...they listen to me even less than they listen to my husband.