Family issues with mending hurt relationships?

There’s a couple of hurt relatives in our family. One side blames the other, both think they’re being reasonable. One side thinks the other wants nothing to do with them, and the other just wants the other to agree with them before any mending can happen.

What could be done to help this situation?

My grandma’s method is to keep inviting warring factions to small dinners. Eventually, they crack and make up.

Grandma’s theory is based on what you do when a mama cow won’t accept her baby calf to nurse. You pen the two up together until the mama cow accepts the baby calf as her own. (This happens a lot with first time mothers.)

I pray that God’s Name might be revered by all parties,
so that “The Sun of Righteousness will rise with healing
in it’s wings” Mal 4

Glory be to the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit,
as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be,
one God, World without end. Amen.

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