I filed for my annulment last Nov. about 8 weeks ago I was told by the Tribunal that my annulment was going to the 2nd council and would be finalized byt he second week in Novemnber. I called today to see what was going on and they said that that they had moved locations and taken longer then expected to find the files and so haven’t sent my annulment to the next council until this tuesday!! :eek: That being said, they also told me it won’t be finalized for another 6-8 weeks!! I am so fuming right now!! :mad:
I am already married to my civillian husband and father of my youngest son. We haven’t had marital relations in months–upon coming back very seriously to the church. I am just so upset right now. We go to our priest for confession every week to remain close to Jesus and prepare us for Communion every sunday. We frequently pray the rosary, We go to chuch every sunday, volunteer at church gatherings and such. I know those htings won’t hurry my annulment along, but right now I feel like everything and all the waiting is done in vain.
I feel very weak right now. and I know it is a spiritual attack, but I honestly feel like I should just throw in the towel. It is so hard to have a child with someone ( plus he is the only father my other 2 sons know ), live in the same house, pay bills, go to church, grocery shop, EVERYTHING a married couple does. All the responsabilites with none of the joys of marital embrace, or deep kissing, I know I am supposed to be patient, and leave it up to God as His will. But right now, I am feeling very lonely, distant from my fiance, angry, and weak. I figured I would share with you guys. I just need someone to talk to. Thanks