This is the situation:
H has a high school friend who is also best friends with my sil who totally snobs me everytime we run into her. She won’t look at me, does not acknowledge me when I speak, has never spoken to me now that I think about it.
At first my H said it was all in my head, which hurt my feelings…then back in Dec. this lady came over to our house and snobbed me at my kitchen table, but this time my SIL noticed. I was so relieved that I’m not crazy…it really happens…but again my H did not notice, but we talked about it.
It happened again last night, and my patience is running thin for it. I can’t tell you why she’s doing it (neither can SIL) but I don’t deserve such disrespect while she fawns over my husband (yes she is a little flirty…that does not bother me)
My feelings are hurt cause my husband isn’t in the slightest bit concerned that she is making me feel yucky. I want him to be angry that she is snobbing me, but he just doesn’t see why. I want him to take up for me…to be “I will not associate with you if you can’t associate with my wife” but he just doesn’t feel that way. It’s no big deal…but if it were happening to him…he’d be mad I know it!
I also wonder how to deal with her and be a good christian at the same time. what she is doing is so devious that if I were to confront her she could easily say I am insane…what would you do???