For courage to tell someone how I feel

There are so many more worthy things that you can offer your prayers for, but I ask you to pray for me to have the courage to tell a woman something. If you think it’s I have a crush on her, then you’re exactly right, although I probably won’t use those words. I go to church with her, and I’m starting to think that the feeling might be mutual, I talk to her after Mass quite a bit, but I don’t know how to go beyond that. Keep in mind, I’m autism spectrum disorder, so that plays a large part in that. I really do appreciate your prayers, God bless y’all.

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Praying for you! (Also consider inviting her out somewhere, that kind of says it for you)

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I’ll be praying for you. Getting to know you on the forums, you seem like a well read, interesting guy. Just keep talking and getting to know each other and, when you’re comfortable, ask her for coffee or go do an activity you’re both interested in.

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You have much higher opinion of me than I do, God bless you.

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I’m going to need to wait until my car actually starts running before I can do that, but that’s not bad advice, God bless you

Praying for you – courage, peace, and growth of your relationship.

Praying for you ~🙏

Sending prayers of courage.

Y’all, I do appreciate it because,whilst I normally don’t have a problem talking to women about this, for some reason I feel different about her. Like okay, it took me forever just to even talk to her, and the only reason I did is because a lot of times on Sundays, I go to the 5 p.m. Mass, so I told myself, that I am not going to eat, anything, until after I talk to this girl, (I had already eaten that morning, so it’s not like I was gonna starve), so I ended up talking to her, had I not done that I would not have eaten dinner that day. So, I know that I can gather the courage to do something like that, so why am I having such a hard time with going any further than that? Thanks y’all for your prayers.

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Maybe because you don’t have a plan? If you tell her you like her, what does she do with that information? I know you said your car doesn’t start right now, but is there anywhere walking distance from the church you could invite her?

Father by your grace… allow this man to court this woman. May his life be filled with happiness and Jesus. May this person follow Christ and help spread the good news of your word. In your name, Jesus amen!

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Yep, because it’s Downtown

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Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!

Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, Amen.

Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.

For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world. x10

Holy God, Holy Mighty One, Holy Immortal One, have mercy on us and on the whole world.


Ask her out for coffee or a light meal after Mass. Start slow and just let things go as they might. Ask God for the Grace to know what to say.
Our Father
Hail Mary
Glory Be

I’m trying, but this is something That I’ve not had experience with for some time. I do appreciate y’all’s prayers and y’all helping me.

O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!

Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, Amen.

Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.

For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world. x10

Holy God, Holy Mighty One, Holy Immortal One, have mercy on us and on the whole world.

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