For me and my girlfriend


My girlfriend of 4 months told me last Friday that she was not sure she was feeling toward me the way she should. She is a wonderful Catholic girl whom I love very much and we match up very well (similar values, interests, backgrounds… and definitely a measure of physical attraction as well… something we have struggled with). We decided to take a two break from seeing or communicating with each other to give her time to see if maybe some distance will help her find those feelings.

In any case, I would like prayers that God guide both of us to make the best decisions for us and that he give us the ability find peace regardless of how it turns out.



How old are the two of you?


I am 36 and she is 29.



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