For my Beautiful Marriage in Shambles

I recently discovered my wife was cheating on me with an “18 year old boy” (her words). She is 34. I am 37. After I found out, I tried to show her love and bring her back to me but she ran off to be with her father across the country and cut off all communications with me, and I have no idea of her intentions. Before she left she said she “didn’t know if we were meant to be together” and didn’t know if we could save our marriage. It appears now that she is blaming me for driving her to these actions. She appears to have no desire to reconcile with me again, and I believe she is preparing to file for divorce. I have said, and continue to say, that I will do anything asked of me to bring our marriage back together again. Our marriage is a Holy Catholic Marriage and cannot be disbanded but by God Himself.

All of this has happened over the course of just over two weeks.

This woman, my wife, is the most beautiful soul you could ever meet on God’s earth. I love her with a love I believe most people will never experience. Today my heart is bursting with pain and suffering over what has happened. Something has gone terribly, terribly wrong.

Please, please, please, pray for my wife. For her health. For her holiness. For a freedom from evil spirits which may surround her or bind her. For clarity of her mind and spirit to seek me out–her husband whom she knows loves her with all of his soul.

Please ask your family and friends to pray for her, your neighbors, grocery store clerks, anyone and everyone you meet. Please pray whenever you can for her. And for our marriage, which was going to be a beautiful marriage filled with Holy Catholic Children but is now barren and in shambles.

Only a small sliver of hope holds me together–that a community of Catholics and Christians around the world cry out in prayers to save this beautiful woman, my wife.

Finally, and only if there is time, I could use your prayers as well. I barely believe it possible that I am still able to go through the days one after the other in this state. The Lord God Almighty must be holding me up His very Self.

In Jesus’s name. Amen

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I shall pray for you brother. You have good intentions and a good heart. While I know little of this matter, I know this much; that The Lord has a plan for all of us, even if we dont get it in the moment. Just remember why God told us to love Him above all else: because all else has potential to be faulty with our own fallen nature. Its not a judgement, just as a fact that we all are vulnerable to folly and sin, especially sin. However, this is no reason not to love, for that is all we can do. Granted, love may not always be received as kind, but it is always tender if it is genuine. The pain you feel shows you love her, no matter what happens, and Chirst sees your suffering and knows what is best for you. Remember; keep your eyes on the cross. Remember Matthew 6:33. Remember God’s providence. I shall pray for you

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I will. Thank you for your response and your prayers.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Gracious and merciful Father, please come to their assistance.

Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.

Amen.

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LORD Jesus please help your son. Please do whatever is the right thing for your children. Let all the malice and snares of the devil be thwarted.

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Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

For Help in Trials

Most holy apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered your beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused you to be forgotten by many. But the Church honors and invokes you universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who feels so hopeless. Make use, I implore you, of that particular privilege accorded to you of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, in particular (MyHeartisSplitinTwo), and that I may bless God with you and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise you, O Blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor you as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to you. Amen.

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Father please help this man. May his wife be guided to come back and reconcile at your will. May he live strong in your word and may your words encourage him to drive on and be positive in these sad times. In your name, Jesus amen!

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O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!

Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, Amen.

Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.

For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world. x10

Holy God, Holy Mighty One, Holy Immortal One, have mercy on us and on the whole world.

Dear Lord, please help this man and his wife to listen to each other and hopefully reconcile. In Jesus’ Name I pray. Mother Mary, St Joseph, and all married couple saints, please intercede. Thank you in advance. Amen.

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I pray that God brings restoration to your marriage and that He has mercy on your wife. Amen.

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Brings me to tears, Thank you.

Thank you for your thoughtful prayer.

Hail Mary full of grace, theLord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou amoungst women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary mother of God oray for us sinners now and at the hour of death
Amen

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Prayer for Conversion

Almighty Father,
You desire not the death of sinners, but that they may be
converted and live. Pour out upon us Your mercy and hear
the prayers of Your servants. Soften the hearts of Your children
who have strayed from the true path, which You established
for their salvation.

Grant that they may quickly return to the practice of every
Christian virtue, so that their lives may shine with the integrity
of faith, the fervor of piety, and the ardor of charity. Restore
them to Your sacraments and the life of Your grace, through
the most precious blood of Your Son Jesus. Amen.

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I pray that our Heavenly Father provides your wife with redirection, provides you with wisdom and strength, and guides you and your wife per His righteous plan.

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For your marriage and for you

Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

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St. Rita of Cascia, pray for this marriage.

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Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless, and the treasury of compassion inexhaustible,
look kindly upon us, and increase your mercy in us,
that in difficult moments, we might not despair nor become despondent,
but with great confidence, submit ourselves to your holy will,
which is love and Mercy itself.
Amen.

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