I recently discovered my wife was cheating on me with an “18 year old boy” (her words). She is 34. I am 37. After I found out, I tried to show her love and bring her back to me but she ran off to be with her father across the country and cut off all communications with me, and I have no idea of her intentions. Before she left she said she “didn’t know if we were meant to be together” and didn’t know if we could save our marriage. It appears now that she is blaming me for driving her to these actions. She appears to have no desire to reconcile with me again, and I believe she is preparing to file for divorce. I have said, and continue to say, that I will do anything asked of me to bring our marriage back together again. Our marriage is a Holy Catholic Marriage and cannot be disbanded but by God Himself.
All of this has happened over the course of just over two weeks.
This woman, my wife, is the most beautiful soul you could ever meet on God’s earth. I love her with a love I believe most people will never experience. Today my heart is bursting with pain and suffering over what has happened. Something has gone terribly, terribly wrong.
Please, please, please, pray for my wife. For her health. For her holiness. For a freedom from evil spirits which may surround her or bind her. For clarity of her mind and spirit to seek me out–her husband whom she knows loves her with all of his soul.
Please ask your family and friends to pray for her, your neighbors, grocery store clerks, anyone and everyone you meet. Please pray whenever you can for her. And for our marriage, which was going to be a beautiful marriage filled with Holy Catholic Children but is now barren and in shambles.
Only a small sliver of hope holds me together–that a community of Catholics and Christians around the world cry out in prayers to save this beautiful woman, my wife.
Finally, and only if there is time, I could use your prayers as well. I barely believe it possible that I am still able to go through the days one after the other in this state. The Lord God Almighty must be holding me up His very Self.
In Jesus’s name. Amen