did you confess to this priest, receive absolution and have the automatic excommunication which you incurred lifted? if not, no you still have more work to do. if you are like most abortion survivors you will “feel bad” for the rest of your life. It is a natural consequence of this most grave sin. while wallowing in your own “feelings” have you given any thought to what you put this woman through, not to mention the injury you have done to your wife and family?
work on restoring your marriage, and on the underlying issues which cause you to sin, through regular prayer, penance, fasting, recourse to the sacraments, and spiritual direction. you should not be getting this advice here, but from your priest.