I was engaged with my ex 2 years ago, i am not sure if our marriage will be good or not, so I had been praying to God for a few months: “if we are not suitable for marriage/ he is not a good partner/ or my vocation is not marriage, please make some thing happen to stop this marriage. If he is the one, please let this goes smoothly.”
Then last year just a few months before our wedding, part of my action (my free will? but i didnt intend to stop relationship, my free will and wish was wanted to marry him) triggered an unexpected event to happen, and this unexpected event has totally broke our relationship/ ended our contact (his free will? he did not want to marry?) and stopped our marriage. So we didn’t get married at last.
My mother had told me it is God’s intervention to stop our marriage. But i just blamed myself for triggering that event to happen.
Now it has past a year, when i look back, it probably is the will of God?
What do you all think?
I still have some doubts - if God had given every one Free Will, the result is due to our free will and not God’s intervention? then when will God intervene? How do we know its all God’s intervention?
Thanks all for answers.