I am lost as to what to do about my friend. She has friends-with-benefits thing going on with a guy who is in RCIA (I know because she told me). She wants me to listen to her when she wants to discuss the guy to me, and so forth. I have told her that I don’t want to talk about the friend-with-benefits because giving advice about him violates my Catholic moral convictions i.e. I don’t want to be seen as approving of the relationship.
(I am no saint and I have a sex past but with God’s help I have cleaned up my act in that area.)
My friend told me that I am being judgmental about the male lover and that “if you are so holy and Catholic then you shouldn’t judge because Jesus didn’t judge people.”
It angers me that the male lover is in RCIA and carrying on like this… probably because I am an RCIA instructor.
Fellow Christians, what do you advise me to do?