Wasn’t sure where to put this.
A friend of my wife just got promoted at her job. For reasons I won’t go into here, she is moving out of her current apartment. Eventually she is planning on moving in with her boyfriend, possibly in 6 months to a year, but in the meantime she wants to move in with us.
We don’t have a problem with this. She and my wife are very good friends, and we get along pretty well, too.
However, I’m concerned about one thing. She’s atheist, which is fine, of course. But she has no moral qualms with her boyfriend sleeping over with her, and I know that they are sexually active. No not my business but she told us herself.
What sort of limits should we set, if any, to avoid any sort of scandal?
*]Prohibit her boyfriend from sleeping over in the same bed as her
*]Or at least prohibit them from being sexually active in our house?
I know a lot of this may come down to personal comfortability and preference, but would like other opinions on this. I’m vying for #1 above but I don’t want to appear uncharitable, either. Like I said she could be here for 6-9 months easily, so I don’t want to just leave it to chance.
Thanks for any input.