Hey all, I'm new here, so if this is in the wrong spot I apologize. Anyway, on to my question.
So I'm in college right now. I'm of legal drinking age, but I'm kind of in the difficult time where some of my friends are, and some are not. My problem is that right now, both of my roommates (I have an apartment) are underage. Unfortunately, I've been kind of...lax in the past. I would frequently allow them to throw parties at the apartment, and even by alcohol for them. I know this was wrong, and have since changed my ways, but I'm still in a bit of a tough spot.
My roommates still like throughing parties at the apartment. They often will over indulge, etc., and while I no longer buy them liquor, they still can get it. What should I do? I can't really stop them from throwing parties (it's their apt. too), but I don't want to lend to scandal or anything. The parties themselves are usually fairly small (haven't ever gotten noise complaints or anything), but I still worry about the message that I send. The situation is even more difficult since many of my 21+ friends often attend, and I do like spending time with them.
So what should I do? I don't want to lend to scandal, but I don't want to be 'exiled' from my own apt. Should I just not go and try and stay somewhere else during the parties? (Oh, and I don't know if this matters, but even when I did attend these get togehters I would stay sober - I know my limits, but they don't.) Any advice?