I’m 17 years old, and I’m in the junior/senior time in high school. My 2 best friends in my grade recently started dating. Apparently, the guy had some problems, and the girl really helped him through it…and then he told me that he had feelings for her. I advised him to love her as a friend first, and see if she would be a proper partner. Well, the girl told me that she didn’t like him that way at all. Then, I hear from someone else that they are dating. I really don’t like the situation I’m in at all. They act all goofy all the time, and they constantly keep teasing each other, and some things the guy says really upsets me. I was in a relationship where my boyfriend would jokingly tease me, but it got out of hand…and it ended up being abuse. I’m scared of what’s going to happen. The girl is very childish and dosen’t see anything wrong with anything. I tried talking to both of them, but they just deny everything I say. I’m really worried and I don’t like being around them together. I know someone is going to tell me to stop seeing them and hang out with someone else, but that really tears me. Because, if this is not as bad as I think it is, it would be my fault the friendship is ruined. And also, I would be all alone at school, which I wouldn’t mind…but I feel like me being there helps them keep things at a pure and friendly level. Like, they need me.
I’m torn. Can someone help? Any advice and/or prayers is appreciated